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Hi Pat,
I’m having a difficult time knowing whether I’m a lesbian, bisexual or straight. I am seeing a therapist and we did talk about me being gay. She think I just want a label. I don’t.
Here is a background about me. When I was 18 or 19 years old I was engage to a man. We had fights constantly. My friends warned me he was gay. When I confront him about this he admit he was. I broke the engagment. I couldn’t marry him. A few years ago I came out to my family and a few friends that I was gay. I see guy and think they are cute and say things like “I want so and so to give me a lap dance or I want to go out with him.” I have harsh opinion about men. I would never date a man. I did have a sexual encounter with a woman once. I enjoy it. I did go to Social Network for lesbian a few years ago. I meet woman online in my area and we tried to meet and I got stood up (twice). I don’t know where I stand. Maybe you can help me. I would appreciate it.
Hi Christa,
I’m a little confused because you said you already came out gay to your family and friends. You also say that you would never date a man and that you enjoyed being with a woman. I am not sure where the confusion is for you. If you are having trouble getting dates and are being stood up, that is a different problem.